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Updated in March 2024



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I dedicate this article to you because I love you all dearly.




I know it sounds cliche, but this is the first piece of advice I will give you. You must love yourself to get the right mindset to become the best version of yourself. Love yourself to work hard enough for your dreams. Respect yourself enough to pick the right job, make the right decisions, and surround yourself with people who lift you higher. Think about your own good; it is your career. You are not selfish; it is your life, your body. Just make sure you are happy with what you are doing.

You must love yourself to follow your own path, to believe in your own success, and most importantly, you must love yourself to love others. 



If you have just graduated, you are now in charge; no one will regularly tell you to take your technical class. It is part of your daily routine as long as you are a performer. Keep training, take a technical class at least three times a week, keep going to ballet, don't skip ballet, please don't! I never made that mistake, but I know many dancers who did. You might love commercial, hip hop, etc. fine, I love that; however, they can't maintain your technique. Ballet, Horton, Graham, Contemporary, and Jazz will. Have a bit of both! If you are on tour or working onboard a cruise ship, you can still make it happen, find a nice spot and do a good ballet barre before your shows! If you are an actor or a singer, the same applies to you. Your body and your voice are special tools, look after yourself the best you can, get enough rest, sleep, and eat well. Be mentally and physically ready, always.



I don't know your opinion about luck, but from now on, you are f****** LUCKY! You must believe in your bright future; you must believe in your good fortune as you are blessed. You are in the right place at the right moment, and you always get what you want! Is it the truth? If not, well, now it is. You will attract everything you want, and it will never stop. I am so lucky! What about you? Decide to be lucky today. That is the secret!



You live in a world full of opportunities, and there is plenty of work for you. You are an opportunity magnet, feeling great, and being very proactive; thus, you always get what you want. If you don't get a job, it is always because it wasn't for you, better is coming soon, and you must be free to receive it. Believe in it. You have an abundant life! 

Why? Because you are Lucky! Remember?!



Be proactive. It is nice to dream but not only. Make sure you take action, have faith, be persistent, and you will always win. It might take time; you might audition many times before booking your first job, that's completely normal; keep working hard! Focus on what you want only. Keep training, auditioning, and one day, I guarantee you that you will get what you always wanted. A dream without action is just a dream; a dream and daily inspired action become a reality.

The Power of 4: Dream + Inspired Action + Perseverance = RESULT



Most important point. What does success mean to you? Not to me, not to your family or your friends but YOU. You must find the answer and focus on it. You must be clear about it. Why is it so important? Satisfaction. Happiness. Joy. Fulfilment. If you can't define what success means to you, you might never be satisfied! You can get the best job in the world; it means nothing if you can't appreciate it. That is why you must know what success means to you, for your peace of mind but also to give a purpose to your life; then you can create an action plan and go through a daily routine, persistently, until the day it will hit you in the face: You made it!



In 7th position? Yes. If you want to win at life, you must first live by tips 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, and 6.

Do not follow this advice: << Audition? No pressure, no worries, relax, it's like a free class, it's OK if you don't get the job, enjoy...>>. The worst advice ever. I know it came from a place of love, but it didn't help me.  What happens with this mindset? You are conditioning yourself to "enjoy a free class," not to get the job. NO, YOU ARE NOT TAKING A CLASS. Indeed have fun but remember why you are here! YOU WANT THE JOB! You want it so hard! You're there to smash it! To be the best you can be! It must be crystal clear in your mind. Your mindset will be completely different; I call it the "Beast Mode." Find yours, transform into someone incredibly talented, powerful, strong, and unstoppable!  Believe in yourself; everyone has something to offer, you are unique.

That said, now I will tell you how to go as far as possible. Stay close to the panel; remember this is an audition. You want to get noticed. No one knows the choreography; make sure you can see the choreographer and ask questions if necessary, however not more than 2. You are not the "question girl/guy." There's always one dancer, "The Brain," the quick learner. Stick with them. I didn't say to rely on anyone; consider this dancer your "secret support" as a 2nd mirror. If possible, if there is an incredibly talented artist in the studio "The Machine," avoid being in the same group as you want to appear for Your Talent. If you can't find "The Brain" or "The Machine" in the room, guess what? It might be you! It works both ways! It is a competition, but everyone has a chance because we never know what they look for at an audition. I auditioned in the past with incredibly talented dancers, fantastic technique, and bodies, but they couldn't pass the first round! Who knows why? Give your very best as you could be The one. I remember this company audition; they needed only one dancer. Guess what? I got the job! 

You must believe in yourself if you want them to believe in you. There is only one you; if they don't want you today, they will want you another day. 

You can also send a spontaneous application*. Create your luck, take risks; it worked so well for me, create your opportunities. There are many paths to success; take as many as you can! You might surprise yourself too. 

Audition for the right reasons. I auditioned twice for a famous musical; I stayed until the very end, I smashed it. I was waiting for "the call." I didn't get the job twice. I auditioned because people wanted me to; it suited me well. Deep inside of me, I only cared about money. I wasn't passionate about this job, not at all. Despite being perfect for the role, I couldn't get it. When you want something, you get it. If it's not for you, Move on!

Be realistic. Do not audition for the Royal Ballet if you are not a very strong ballet dancer. Do not audition for The Martha Graham Company if you never took a Graham class before. Do not audition for a vocal ensemble if you can't sing; if they need tap dancers, don't show up if you can't tap. Just be mindful of it. You are lucky indeed. However, don't waste your precious time and preserve your reputation.

Focus on your strengths first.

Lastly, don't tell every single time about your auditions; you don't need that pressure, you can fail many times before booking a job, and it is entirely normal. My first auditions were in New York; the level was extremely high; despite going quite far every time, I auditioned perhaps 20 times before booking my first job (which I couldn't accept at the end because of my visa!). I got tired of hearing the same question: << So? Did you get it?>>. Do not tell the world; you don't need that.


*Make sure that you have a great CV. I'm pleased about mine, to be honest, I didn't do it myself, I contacted a freelancer. Fiverr offers a Fantastic service for that; it is pretty helpful, affordable, and fast! The good thing about it is that when you find the right CV, it's done! 

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You always have a choice. If you are working for free, make sure you are doing it for something; if it is not financial, you must find something worth giving your time to; otherwise, it becomes a sacrifice. I know sacrifice very well; it's consuming. Do it for something you genuinely love, perhaps work with an inspiring choreographer, share the stage with amazing people, or for your resume. If it's a winning plan, go for it!



Again, define what the right decision is! Love yourself enough to decide what's right for you, but what is the right decision? The one you just made! Don't ever question that, and trust your intuition. Have faith in your choices. Every decision you make is the RIGHT decision for YOU


# 10 AGENT

Yes, if you consider working in musical theater, commercial, TV, and film. I had multiple agents in my career. Make sure to find the right agent for you and don't be ashamed of asking anything you need, do not forget that you are the client; you're more valuable than you think. The perfect agent will find great opportunities for you, and the ideal agent will always ask you first before putting you forward for a job. You need someone who believes in you. Also, be aware of scams; always investigate before making a decision. Finally, you can have up to 3 agents on Spotlight; however, stick to only one if possible as casting directors like to see actors with only one agent. 



Don't lie. People always find out. I auditioned many dancers in my career; trust me, people go very far and even add 20 cm to their height. Have some self-respect; please don't follow their example. Be polite to others, don't complain publicly, be happy, and smile at work. Avoid talking about your rate, be discreet about it. Show up all the time and do your job the best you can. You got the job, and now you must keep it. Be friendly, and they will book you again. Finally, give more! Do things you weren't paid for, why not? Show them how valuable you are and how you make a difference in the show, they would much appreciate it, and they will thank you for that.



What is it? Your Haters! Those are the people who don't support you, either because they don't understand you, they want you to fail, or because they are jealous. Be happy about it! If they are jealous, it is because you are great! And even if they hate what you are doing, secretly, they envy you. Just keep going, prove them wrong, and inspire them; they can't harm you at the end of the day.

Are you jealous? Are you a hater? If you find yourself in this position one day, I would love for you to take a moment to think about it. Perhaps take this opportunity to grow as an artist and learn from them instead. Observe them and apply these lessons to your career. Your energy is so precious, don't waste it, move on, and create your success. Abundance! Remember?



Our profession is unpredictable. I wish you to work as much as you want. However, do not forget to save money. Save, always. Put aside at least 10% of EVERYTHING you earn. Your friend gives you cash for your birthday? Save 10%. The first thing to do on payday? Save 10%. Be responsible and make it a habit, "pay yourself first." Save 5% if you can't save ten and save 20% if you are comfortable; find the right balance for you. You are making money, be happy and grateful about it.  





And for those wondering. What about the future? Can I be a professional artist and a parent at the same time? The answer is yes, you can. You read tips 1, 2, 3, 4, and 5, so you should already know the answer. You can have anything you want. You are your only limit.


I wish you all the success, happiness, and love in the world and if you need some guidance M-Intensive Online Dance Training is right there by your side. Always. Today you made the right decision; you read this article until the end because you are investing in yourself.           

This is not a coincidence. You were at the right place at the right moment.





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